Are we there yet?

*** Disclosure: This post was written to a specific audience, the first paragraph will help you to decide if you want to proceed*** Without a word or warning, our defense radar often appears when a possible suitor walks in the room–we become the: ‘strongintellectualblackwomanwhobeentheredonethat gotthet-shirtsodonttrynosh*tnorgamewitmeblackman’. Looking back over a lifetime of varied experiences I can… Read More Are we there yet?